twin beds

We are still in the process of finding a home that can also serve as a B&B. We are closer to making a decision than ever before, but as dear friend, Cristina, suggested, we need to define ourselves and the kind of B&B we want to offer even before we make a final decision on a home purchase.

“It’s all about the vibe,” she explained. Cristina is a designer and branding consultant at SIGNAL.csk Brand Partners whose creative insights make this journey we are on so much more powerful.

“I want people to feel cared for, yet given the space they need to either heal, connect, or create,” the words fell effortlessly from my mouth.

Since my hope is that parents of college students from Mount Saint Mary College will come to stay, I want them to feel the same welcoming and inclusive community we offer their children at The Mount.

Because I was healed emotionally and spiritually at a B&B, I want to offer the same type of space to others who just need to escape for a while.

And as a writer, I hope to offer a retreat atmosphere for other writers who are in search of a pull-away for their work in progress.

The vibe we want to promote dictates the decor, the organization of space, and even the food served for breakfast. I’m learning so much about how to create a space and experience that can make a difference in the lives of others. I will share with you more about what we’re learning as we move forward.



A Hunting We Will Go

house bannerI have more than a dozen properties on my “list” of possible homes to buy that may serve as a B&B. They all have something unique to offer, but deciding on those “must have’s” is crucial to this buying experience. Is it big enough? Old enough? Have enough acreage? Enough bathrooms? Charm? Can we afford it?

While touring these homes, I can tell if it has “good bones,” but there’s more to it than good bones.

Location truly matters, more than if we were only buying for our own primary residence. Is the neighborhood B&B friendly? What does that mean anyway? We’re talking more than zoning regulations. What is in the vicinity that attracts B&B’ers to the area in the first place? Is the surrounding area walkable? Can guests go explore on their own safely? Are there eateries nearby that are quaint in their own right (since we only serve breakfast)? Are the grounds an oasis of their own?

How much work is needed to restore or renovate the home is a close second in this decision making process, but location is probably even more important than that in my opinion.

So today we looked at a huge 5 bedroom, 3 bath 1860’s home in the downtown area. It had great “bones.” It is big enough, but it has no yard to speak of. It has character. It’s affordable. And even though the area is “up and coming,” it isn’t coming up fast enough to make this location a good choice.

So we keep looking. Fortunately, there’s lots to choose from here.


What’s in a Name?


As we look at properties that might fit our goals for a B&B and our primary residence, I know that once we decide, we are also going to have to decide on a name for the place. We don’t want potential guests to refer to us as “that B&B down near the college.” A couple of the houses we’re looking at are already on the historic register and have “names” – one was an original homestead here, which is saying something, so we wouldn’t want to mess with that. But most of our choices don’t have a name – yet.

How does one decide what to name their B&B??

In order to research this problem, I do what I always do – I google it.

Here are some suggestions from an article called “How to Name Your Bed & Breakfast” – it was the first hit on google.

  1. Make a fairly long list of potential names before settling on one.
  2. Ask some friends whose opinions you trust to give honest input.
  3. Consider using your inn’s location in the name. But be careful — names like Inn by the Sea are overused.
  4. If your inn has a special history, consider working that into the name.
  5. Think about alternative meanings. For example, “Harry” sounds like “hairy” and might not always be particularly inviting.
  6. Say the name out loud several times, and have people who aren’t familiar with it do the same. Names that are hard to pronounce aren’t the most useful
  7. Make sure it’s fresh. Search for the name on the Internet — if dozens of hits come up in any context, or if even a small handful of other bed and breakfasts are already using the name, throw it away.
  8. Think about how it will look in a logo. Long names can be hard to use on brochures and business cards.
  9. Look up potential URLs. If you want to be Smith’s Bed and Breakfast, look up URLs like and to make sure a good one is available for you. And, since domain registration is relatively inexpensive, you may as well go ahead and reserve any domain name you might want in the future.
  10. Don’t forget that someday you’ll want to sell the inn. Personal names (e.g. Smith’s Bed and Breakfast) generally don’t pass on as well as names like Golden Eagle Bed and Breakfast.
  11. Think alphabetically. Some B&B directories list inns in alphabetical order. Apple House Bed and Breakfast scores better here than Yellow Frog Inn.
  12. Remember that naming your inn should balance all of these suggestions. AAA Bed and Breakfast might get you good placement in some inn directories, but it sounds stale and institutional.

These are all great ideas, and it appears I have some significant work ahead of me on this topic of naming our B&B. There’s a lot of pressure in getting this right. As an author, I know that there’s a lot of work that goes into titling a book. I suspect the process is similar. We may need help from some of our friends. I want to communicate a sense of history, of place, but most importantly of hospitality and peace. Feel free to contribute to our “long list of potential names”!

Tea Time

china in sugarloaf

I love vintage china, and when I think about serving breakfast to guests in our B&B as well Sunday afternoon tea, I want it to be special. I do have my own china, but it’s only service for 4, so that just won’t do. Last weekend during our meandering through the Sugarloaf Fall Festival, there was an estate sale. A familiar rose pattern caught my eye in an overfilled box in the corner. For $20 I bought this vintage 8-piece, 10 place settings of Royal China in Beverly Rose from 1936.

Now I love roses. In fact, I plant a new rose bush every year in honor of my mother, who loved yellow roses. My grandmother had a wonderful side yard rose garden and she loved roses too. In fact, her name was Rose. When I came home I couldn’t shake the peace-filled familiarity of this china pattern. When I looked into my china cabinet, I realized why. It’s the same pattern of my grandmother’s china, from whom I only have 2 pieces.

Home, hearth, and hospitality – that’s what this china pattern conveys. One more part of the B&B preparation. Can’t wait to see what’s next!

china in sugarloaf pattern
Royal China Beverly Rose from estate sale
grandma's pattern
Keystone Cannonsburgh pottery LaJean pattern-grandma’s china pattern

B&B Prep: Flea Market Finds

book finds

I love going to festivals, art/craft shows, and flea markets. Now when I go I have a different goal in mind; what can I find to add to our B&B experience for guests? I know we will have a library in our B&B – well, because I want a library whether or not we have a B&B. Even though years ago we sold all of our books (we had hundreds) in favor of using digital books instead, there’s still something about perusing the shelves of someone else’s collection, carefully retrieving a book you either always wanted to read or need to read, and settling into a comfy chair in a well lit room to read.

I already have my collection of antique school books and classic novels, and I’m more than happy to share them with our guests, but we need more to offer than Jane Eyre and An Introduction to Basic Spanish from 1935. My husband, Chip, snagged a Carl Hiaasen book today at the Sugarloaf Fall Festival for 25 cents – one of his favorite authors. I have to make sure I’m not the only choosing the books or the collection will be a little biased toward women.

One of the functions of our B&B will be to host mini writers’ retreats or get-aways. I will always have available books on writing and inspiration for them. If a published author comes to stay or comes to lead a writers’ retreat, I will also ensure that their books are available.

I believe that it’s important that your B&B reflects who you are and what you love. After all, it is your home and should be an authentic representation of you! I love books and writing, so both will be a part of our B&B.

Any ideas of books for me to keep on our shelves are welcome – donations even better! 😉

Now, let’s see what else I found at the festival today. . .